This is an interesting true story from an Islamic woman, that is really inspiring to me. The response, though (on the next page after,) is just ... yikes.
My own thought is that masculinity & violence cannot really be addressed, without addressing sex & romance as well. But nobody's really doing that. Violence & aggression are problems that men will be held accountable for, but sex & romance are just luxuries, that men should do without. But consider Freyja...